Have you ever told your kids to “talk nice”? Did you know you can make that message really stick with a bag of rocks, some water and a nail? In this video, Tim Shoemaker will show how hard it can be to fix wounds caused by our cutting words.
After watching video three, consider taking these steps to get the most out of this part of the series:
// Step 1
Read and meditate on this Scripture verse: “There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” (Proverbs 12:18 ESV)
// Step 2
Answer these discussion questions:
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Spend time in prayer:
Heavenly Father,
Help me to bring healing, not hurt, with my words.
Please let me speak life into someone else each day.
Heal the hurt I may have caused with my words in the past, in the way only you can.
In Jesus’ name I pray,
Amen.
// Step 4
Read more about how to set up this demonstration and lead the follow-up discussion in the Take a Stab at Kindness Instructional PDF.
// Step 5
Read the article “Seeing the master behind the design: Fun science experiments to do as a family” for more cool object lessons and a taste of what you’ll find in the recommended book below.
Recommended resource
Faith and Science With Dr. Fizzlebop by Brock Eastman helps you teach your kids spiritual truths as you conduct 52 fun, fizzy science experiments that lead to discussions about biblical concepts. Each experiment typically takes 5 to 10 minutes, followed by another five minutes for the devotional discussion. Designed for use with kids ages 6+
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Take a Stab at Kindness Instructional PDF from The Very Best, Hands-on, Kinda Dangerous Family Devotions Chapter 7 “Take a Stab at Kindness” © 2019 by Tim Shoemaker. Published by Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group (BakerPublishingGroup.com). Used by permission.
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