The Problem with Pornography video series

Why Is Pornography a Problem for Me?

Pornography is unhealthy because it is addictive, even if the use is infrequent. Because it’s “an illegitimate way of meeting a legitimate need,” pornography becomes a short-term solution to a long-term problem. In this video, Luke Campbell explains how addictive stimuli like pornography is often a maladaptive way of coping with deeper problems we’re trying to avoid.

Get more out of this series!

After watching video 2, follow these steps to get the most out of this part of the series:

// Step 1

Read and meditate on this verse: “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” (1 Corinthians 10:13)

// Step 2

Answer these discussion questions:

1. 1. Have you heard of the term “maladaptive coping mechanism” before? Can you see how pornography can quickly become a short-term solution for a long-term problem?
   2. Renowned addiction expert Dr. Gabor Maté challenges people to stop asking, “Why the addiction?” and instead ask, “Why the pain?” What do you think of this?
   3. Consider the study by Nikolaas Tinbergen that showed male butterflies being more attracted to cardboard butterflies (supernormal stimulus) than real female butterflies. What is the “real butterfly” you’re ignoring in your life? Your spouse? Real relationships? God?

// Step 3

Download our free booklet Understanding and Navigating Addiction. In this 16-page PDF, you’ll find articles to help you understand and navigate the complex issue of addiction, especially if you’re the loved one of someone who is addicted. 

// Step 4

Sign up for the free video series Mental Health in Marriage with Dr. Karl Benzio. As a board-certified psychiatrist and the co-founder of Honey Lake Clinic (a residential Christian facility for mental health, mood disorder and addiction treatment), Dr. Benzio brings a wealth of knowledge about the area of addiction and how people can speak up about the struggles they face.