What Do I Do Next?
Confession is the hardest part, but it is the only way to freedom, healing and a restoration of trust. In this video, Luke Campbell explains the very human reaction of apprehension and wanting to take our secrets to the grave, but he also shows why it’s necessary to step into the discomfort of confession to bring healing and not let the “silent killer” of pornography continue to destroy relationships.
After watching video 5, follow these steps to get the most out of this part of the series:
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Read and meditate on this verse: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9)
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Answer these discussion questions:
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Read the article “What you need to know about your husband’s porn confession” by Geremy Keeton and Joann Condie if you recently learned about your husband’s pornography use.
Read the article “Restoring trust after a confession of pornography addiction” by Geremy Keeton and Joann Condie to understand how pornography damages trust in a marriage and what both spouses can do to take steps to restoration.
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Get your copy of the book Aftershock: Overcoming His Secret Life with Pornography. As counsellors, Geremy Keeton and Joann Condie are well aware of the impact a husband’s use of pornography has on a marriage and seek to help women navigate the immediate aftershock of the revelation. Order your copy of this book today and get $3 off when you use the code*: SHOCK
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Check out our series page on pornography. This curated collection of articles, broadcasts and resources will help you understand the dangers, learn from those who have found freedom, and discover advice for how to protect your marriage and your children from the damaging effects of pornography.
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